Jan. 18, 2023
Episode 9 - The Meditation of Action
Meditation isn't always sitting in silence and contemplation. For most of us, meditation in action is a great way to rewire our lives for happiness and become a force of kindness in the world.
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And welcome.
Welcome to a Resident Life
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episode 9.
So happy, you've joined us today
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and I'm looking forward to
talking about our topic today,
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which is meditation, and
mindfulness meditation is a very
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broad word and there's so many
different kinds of meditation
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out there.
That when somebody makes a
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resolution to start meditating
to improve their live or to calm
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Themselves down or to deal with
anxiety or pain, whatever it
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might be.
There's so many choices and
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options and it's often difficult
to choose the right one for you,
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the right meditation practice
for you.
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And then it's even harder to
stick with it because our minds
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are busy things.
And when we encounter obstacles,
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our minds continue to pull us
away from those resolutions to
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meditate to calm down, and to
overcome that sort of, They
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called monkey mind.
I guess so, as I said, there's
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an infinite variety there,
sitting meditation, moving
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meditation visualization.
Emptiness focused, spiritual
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mindfulness, the list goes on,
there's many names, I'm sure
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most of you have heard shunyata
tonglen, calm abiding.
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Yoga Mantra tantric cetera.
It's quite overwhelming.
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And hard to figure out where to
start and how to do it.
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So we're going to take a
different approach today about
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meditation, and how to see
meditation and understand
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meditation.
And then with that different
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understanding that different
perspective, seeing how we can
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incorporate it into our daily
lives.
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Not just half an hour here or
there, but rather, as a
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moment-by-moment experience, And
mindfulness will be a part of
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this.
And as I mentioned in a previous
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episode, I personally prefer to
use the words intention
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intentional and intentionality
instead of mindfulness.
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This would be small M,
mindfulness, capital M
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mindfulness.
This is a concrete practice of
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meditation, but mindfulness is
sort of a generic word.
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Use these days to encourage
people to be in the moment so to
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speak with whatever they're
doing.
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So instead of that sort of using
mindfulness, we're going to use
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the word intention intentional
and intentionality.
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So how do we reframe re
contextualize and understand a
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new meditation as a practice as
something we can do?
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And as an exercise.
The way to do this, I think is
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to understand that the
stereotypical view of meditation
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is to be sitting on a cushion
and to be still and quiet and
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bringing your mind to a state of
calmness and focus.
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And this is something
meditators.
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Do once a day twice a day, maybe
they do 5 minutes, maybe they do
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15, 20, 30 hours.
Certainly, Advanced meditators
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can sit for hours in quiet.
Contemplation. but meditation
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isn't all about, just being
quiet and still Meditation from
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a larger perspective and looking
at it in this different way that
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we're doing today is about
maintaining a level of
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awareness.
And in that awareness
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maintaining an intention What
does that mean?
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Concretely?
So in the podcast, we've talked
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a lot about finding ourselves in
situations of conflict or
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situations of emotional
reaction.
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Whether that's anger, or
frustration, or anxiety, and
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catching ourselves, and taking a
step back, taking a deep breath
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and pulling back from the self,
the ego that's in that state.
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Sort of being the little angel
on the shoulder, that's
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observing rather than being in
the middle of it all.
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And that's what we're going to
be talking about today as a
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state of meditation.
Because really, every time you
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find yourself in a situation of
anxiety or conflict or upset and
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you're able to stop step back.
Take a breath and become that
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little angel on your shoulder.
And observe, that's actually
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meditation.
And the more you can do that
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throughout the course of the
day, the more you find yourself
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in meditation.
And so it's not just about
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sitting, it's about acting and
as you'll know, from this
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podcast, we talk about action
all the time that nothing is
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brought into reality unless we
act upon it.
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If we think about it, that's
fine.
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But if we don't act on what we
think about nothing happens, If
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we make a decision or a goal or
a concrete objective that we
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want to act on, but we don't act
on it, we keep it in our brains,
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then it's nothing action creates
the reality in which we want to
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live.
And most of our lives were in a
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reality where we're not
necessarily in control because
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our egos driving everything and
our ego.
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Reacts our ego is tied to our In
a to our survival Instinct to
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our animal base nature.
And so this intention to not be
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that the intention to be the
little angel on the shoulder,
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The Observer, the one who is
striving to be authentic
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authentic, meaning being able to
experience the world with
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Equanimity where there isn't?
Yes.
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No like dislike hate love but a
steady even Life a steady even
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way of living in and
experiencing life where you are.
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a force of positivity, not just
for yourself, but for all those
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around you, that's the end
result of meditation.
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That's the goal of meditation.
That's peace.
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Peace of Mind, peace of heart.
And it's also peace around you
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peace in the world.
So the meditation were talking
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about is setting an intention.
To use our daily life.
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To meditate or to get better at
becoming the Observer rather
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than the passenger of our ego.
We want to be the Observer of
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our ego and ultimately, the
master of our ego, the master of
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the ego meaning, we get to
control how we react, we're in
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control of our intentions were
in control of how we relate to
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others, rather than just
reacting.
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It's kind of comes down to who's
the boss.
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If the ego is the boss, then
we're riding along through life
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with many ups and downs and
anger and upsets and happiness
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is enjoys, and it's just a
roller coaster of emotions.
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And it's just a situation where
there is no sense of control or
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satisfaction.
Because we're always being
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pulled this way and that and so
the idea is to become the boss
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of yourself.
So the key mind hacks to make
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this happen we've discussed
before but let's discuss them
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today from a perspective of a
concrete practice of meditation.
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So when waking up set your
intention as soon as you come to
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Consciousness, as soon as you
maybe open your eyes or do that
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little stretch as you come out
of sleep, think to yourself
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today.
Today, I am going to be aware of
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myself.
I am going to be awake to who I
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am and how I live in the world.
You can expand this.
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Today, I'm going to be a cause
of happiness for all those
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around me.
But that simple intention.
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You've already pointed the prow
of the ship of your day towards
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positivity before your mind, can
start to think about the
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stresses in the difficulties and
the challenges ahead.
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You've already said it towards
being a cause of happiness for
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others, for your day.
That's the beginning of your
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meditation for the day, your
meditation in action.
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And so, of course, as you get
going, as you get up, maybe
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there's children to get off to
school and get ready, maybe
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there's a spouse to help, get
off to work or whatever the
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case, maybe you'll forget.
I'll forget we all forget, we
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all forget this intention, but
the trick is to try and keep
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coming back to it and the best
opportunities for coming back to
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it.
Are the moments when we're
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feeling stress, irritation
anxiety, these little moments
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happen throughout the day.
We're always being bombarded by
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something, that is sort of
disrupting our equilibrium.
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So try to use those moments to
bring it back to.
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I want to be the cause of
Happiness to all those around me
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today.
Let's say your child is late.
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Getting out the door for school
and you're hustling them along.
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You're hustling the long.
You're like golly, why can't
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this kid?
Get it together?
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That moment right there.
Step back from that.
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Get out out of the middle of the
feeling step back and say ah,
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whether or not the kid gets off
on time.
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Actually isn't all that
important.
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What is important is that the
kid is happy.
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It's important that the kid is
safe and it's important that
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that child also be a cause of
happiness, for others around
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them.
And the best way for that to
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happen is if you are a cause of
happiness, for all others around
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you, and so, step back from
that, and bring yourself back to
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that meditation.
It's like magic because you'll
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find yourself calm down.
You'll find yourself centered.
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You'll find yourself grounded,
in a sense.
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That's a state of mindfulness,
right?
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And so you carry on let's say
you're off to work or you're off
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to some kind of an appointment
and there's traffic too many
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people on the train.
Too many cars going too fast or
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too slow irritation, hurry up,
hurry up, people.
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I've got places to be right
there.
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Boom.
Every state of irritation
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anxiety, upset, frustration.
Dissatisfaction becomes an
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opportunity to bring your mind
back to the meditation.
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That meditation was the
intention you set.
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As soon as you woke up, I want
to be a cause of happiness for
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all those around me today. now,
certainly many people have lives
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that are filled with
difficulties and hardships.
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Possibly abuse deprivation.
And that makes it hard.
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To imagine that you could be a
cause of happiness for others.
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When you can't even imagine
happiness for yourself.
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Depression.
Is something that brings people
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down so low that it the
depression and the chemical
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hormonal balance in the brain
and the nervous system all
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combined to create a situation
that is hard to get out of the
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black hole of depression.
How hard to see the light?
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These pose particular challenges
for people to set their
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intention to be a cause of
happiness for others.
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So this is the beauty of what I
call mind hacks is that you
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don't have to believe it, you
don't have to feel it in your
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gut.
If you just go through the
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motion, I will be a cause of
happiness, for others, with all
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of my actions of body speech and
mind today.
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Just saying the words.
And trying to make an effort.
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This re paves the brain re paves
the neural Pathways this if you
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can keep it up over time.
Over and over and over, even if
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you don't mean it, even if you
don't feel it, you will
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eventually start to feel it.
You will eventually start to
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mean it.
And you will actually become not
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only a cause of happiness for
others, but you'll see a little
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bit of light, a little bit of
happiness in your own life.
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The enemy of happiness.
The enemy of peace.
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Is doing nothing is stasis.
Is being overwhelmed Frozen,
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unable to act.
That's why I keep emphasizing
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that we have to take action even
if we're Faking It.
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Even if we're just mouthing, the
words or mindlessly.
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Reciting a litany in our brains,
and our minds, Without taking
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the action, nothing happens.
Nothing changes.
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And so if you set your mind to
meditation to becoming a
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meditator to meditating as a
routine and a daily practice,
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that's an action, that's a first
step setting, your intention for
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that.
That's the first step.
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The next step is to act on that
to do it to do something.
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So that step can be waking up in
the morning and saying today.
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Today I am going to be the cause
of happiness for all those
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around me.
That's the next step.
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If you just get that done once
twice, maybe for a week, things
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are going to start to unravel
loosen up and you're going to
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start to feel it and you'll be
able to take the next step.
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And that next step is finding
yourself in a state and
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emotional state where you're not
the boss and saying, whoa, wait
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a minute, I am the boss stepping
back, becoming the angel on your
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shoulder and saying, okay, now I
get to reorient myself to my
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intention, that I will be a
cause of happiness.
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And the day goes on and you get
caught up lost in the sea of
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things going on.
But every time you can stop step
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back, take a breath and say,
ahh.
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I'm going to be a cause of
Happiness.
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You've changed the future.
You've changed the future
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because you're no longer a
participant or a passenger a
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victim being pulled along,
you've suddenly taken charge and
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you can set a new Direction in
that environment.
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Acting taking charge of yourself
of your mind of your heart of
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your intention.
Controls your reality.
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And by taking control of your
emotional spiritual reality, you
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change the present for the
positive, and you change the
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future for the positive.
And as you get better at this,
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not only do you find that your
emotions are more stable.
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Your day is more full of light
than Darkness.
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Not only do you find these
things.
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But you'll find that the people
around you.
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Are also experiencing more
happiness that their their
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column or they're more friendly.
They're more open than more
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welcoming.
Because your state of Happiness
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translates into kind actions,
kindness you become a source of
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kindness.
Because you're happy.
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Happy people are kind people.
Happy people do kind things.
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The Dominoes start to fall as we
override our - mind and our
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animalistic ego, The Dominoes
start to fall and we become, as
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I've said, this bright light
that attracts others to us and
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that brings them happiness.
And their happiness.
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Becomes our happiness becomes a
house of mirrors reflecting
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happiness.
Infinitely And as you experience
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that through this, very simple
basic practice of meditation in
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action.
A sense of Joy will well up in
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your heart and this Joy is like
nothing you will have ever
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experienced before because it is
a sustained feeling sense of a
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of abiding of joy of
satisfaction. and while it might
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not last, the moments that we
experience it, Help us to work
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harder.
To set Our intention more
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frequently, more strongly so
that we can build more sustained
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moments of joy.
So meditation a different way of
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looking at meditation.
Setting your intention in the
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morning.
There are many ways many
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intentions to set in the
morning, but the one I've laid
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out here is being a cause of
happiness, for others, and all
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of your actions, and thoughts
and words.
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And then catching yourself using
the moments of irritation,
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anxiety, and upset to, to, to
reset that intention to take
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that step back.
I guarantee. that if you do
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this, For any period of time.
Your life will change for the
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better.
The lives of those around.
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You will also change.
So, thank you for listening
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today.
It's been great talking and I
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look forward to the next episode
where we can talk more, please
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send an e-mail Mike at resonant.
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friends and let's continue to
work together to create a
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resonant life uncovering, our
own and others, authentic
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selves, creating a world of
peace and happiness, that will
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defy expectation.
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And welcome.
Welcome to a Resident Life
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episode 9.
So happy, you've joined us today
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and I'm looking forward to
talking about our topic today,
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which is meditation, and
mindfulness meditation is a very
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broad word and there's so many
different kinds of meditation
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out there.
That when somebody makes a
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resolution to start meditating
to improve their live or to calm
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Themselves down or to deal with
anxiety or pain, whatever it
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might be.
There's so many choices and
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options and it's often difficult
to choose the right one for you,
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the right meditation practice
for you.
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And then it's even harder to
stick with it because our minds
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are busy things.
And when we encounter obstacles,
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our minds continue to pull us
away from those resolutions to
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meditate to calm down, and to
overcome that sort of, They
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called monkey mind.
I guess so, as I said, there's
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an infinite variety there,
sitting meditation, moving
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meditation visualization.
Emptiness focused, spiritual
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mindfulness, the list goes on,
there's many names, I'm sure
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most of you have heard shunyata
tonglen, calm abiding.
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Yoga Mantra tantric cetera.
It's quite overwhelming.
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And hard to figure out where to
start and how to do it.
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So we're going to take a
different approach today about
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meditation, and how to see
meditation and understand
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meditation.
And then with that different
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understanding that different
perspective, seeing how we can
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incorporate it into our daily
lives.
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Not just half an hour here or
there, but rather, as a
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moment-by-moment experience, And
mindfulness will be a part of
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this.
And as I mentioned in a previous
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episode, I personally prefer to
use the words intention
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intentional and intentionality
instead of mindfulness.
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This would be small M,
mindfulness, capital M
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mindfulness.
This is a concrete practice of
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meditation, but mindfulness is
sort of a generic word.
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Use these days to encourage
people to be in the moment so to
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speak with whatever they're
doing.
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So instead of that sort of using
mindfulness, we're going to use
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the word intention intentional
and intentionality.
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So how do we reframe re
contextualize and understand a
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new meditation as a practice as
something we can do?
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And as an exercise.
The way to do this, I think is
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to understand that the
stereotypical view of meditation
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is to be sitting on a cushion
and to be still and quiet and
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bringing your mind to a state of
calmness and focus.
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And this is something
meditators.
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Do once a day twice a day, maybe
they do 5 minutes, maybe they do
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15, 20, 30 hours.
Certainly, Advanced meditators
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can sit for hours in quiet.
Contemplation. but meditation
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isn't all about, just being
quiet and still Meditation from
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a larger perspective and looking
at it in this different way that
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we're doing today is about
maintaining a level of
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awareness.
And in that awareness
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maintaining an intention What
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Concretely?
So in the podcast, we've talked
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a lot about finding ourselves in
situations of conflict or
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situations of emotional
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Whether that's anger, or
frustration, or anxiety, and
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catching ourselves, and taking a
step back, taking a deep breath
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and pulling back from the self,
the ego that's in that state.
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Sort of being the little angel
on the shoulder, that's
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observing rather than being in
the middle of it all.
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And that's what we're going to
be talking about today as a
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state of meditation.
Because really, every time you
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find yourself in a situation of
anxiety or conflict or upset and
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you're able to stop step back.
Take a breath and become that
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little angel on your shoulder.
And observe, that's actually
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meditation.
And the more you can do that
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throughout the course of the
day, the more you find yourself
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in meditation.
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sitting, it's about acting and
as you'll know, from this
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podcast, we talk about action
all the time that nothing is
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brought into reality unless we
act upon it.
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If we think about it, that's
fine.
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But if we don't act on what we
think about nothing happens, If
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we make a decision or a goal or
a concrete objective that we
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want to act on, but we don't act
on it, we keep it in our brains,
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then it's nothing action creates
the reality in which we want to
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live.
And most of our lives were in a
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reality where we're not
necessarily in control because
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our egos driving everything and
our ego.
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Reacts our ego is tied to our In
a to our survival Instinct to
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our animal base nature.
And so this intention to not be
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that the intention to be the
little angel on the shoulder,
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The Observer, the one who is
striving to be authentic
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authentic, meaning being able to
experience the world with
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Equanimity where there isn't?
Yes.
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No like dislike hate love but a
steady even Life a steady even
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way of living in and
experiencing life where you are.
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a force of positivity, not just
for yourself, but for all those
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around you, that's the end
result of meditation.
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That's the goal of meditation.
That's peace.
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Peace of Mind, peace of heart.
And it's also peace around you
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peace in the world.
So the meditation were talking
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about is setting an intention.
To use our daily life.
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To meditate or to get better at
becoming the Observer rather
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than the passenger of our ego.
We want to be the Observer of
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our ego and ultimately, the
master of our ego, the master of
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the ego meaning, we get to
control how we react, we're in
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control of our intentions were
in control of how we relate to
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others, rather than just
reacting.
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It's kind of comes down to who's
the boss.
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If the ego is the boss, then
we're riding along through life
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with many ups and downs and
anger and upsets and happiness
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is enjoys, and it's just a
roller coaster of emotions.
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And it's just a situation where
there is no sense of control or
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satisfaction.
Because we're always being
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pulled this way and that and so
the idea is to become the boss
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of yourself.
So the key mind hacks to make
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this happen we've discussed
before but let's discuss them
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today from a perspective of a
concrete practice of meditation.
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So when waking up set your
intention as soon as you come to
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Consciousness, as soon as you
maybe open your eyes or do that
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little stretch as you come out
of sleep, think to yourself
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today.
Today, I am going to be aware of
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myself.
I am going to be awake to who I
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am and how I live in the world.
You can expand this.
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Today, I'm going to be a cause
of happiness for all those
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around me.
But that simple intention.
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You've already pointed the prow
of the ship of your day towards
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positivity before your mind, can
start to think about the
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stresses in the difficulties and
the challenges ahead.
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You've already said it towards
being a cause of happiness for
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others, for your day.
That's the beginning of your
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meditation for the day, your
meditation in action.
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And so, of course, as you get
going, as you get up, maybe
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there's children to get off to
school and get ready, maybe
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there's a spouse to help, get
off to work or whatever the
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case, maybe you'll forget.
I'll forget we all forget, we
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all forget this intention, but
the trick is to try and keep
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coming back to it and the best
opportunities for coming back to
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it.
Are the moments when we're
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feeling stress, irritation
anxiety, these little moments
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happen throughout the day.
We're always being bombarded by
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something, that is sort of
disrupting our equilibrium.
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So try to use those moments to
bring it back to.
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I want to be the cause of
Happiness to all those around me
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today.
Let's say your child is late.
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Getting out the door for school
and you're hustling them along.
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You're hustling the long.
You're like golly, why can't
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this kid?
Get it together?
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That moment right there.
Step back from that.
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Get out out of the middle of the
feeling step back and say ah,
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whether or not the kid gets off
on time.
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Actually isn't all that
important.
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What is important is that the
kid is happy.
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It's important that the kid is
safe and it's important that
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that child also be a cause of
happiness, for others around
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them.
And the best way for that to
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happen is if you are a cause of
happiness, for all others around
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you, and so, step back from
that, and bring yourself back to
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that meditation.
It's like magic because you'll
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find yourself calm down.
You'll find yourself centered.
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You'll find yourself grounded,
in a sense.
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That's a state of mindfulness,
right?
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And so you carry on let's say
you're off to work or you're off
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to some kind of an appointment
and there's traffic too many
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people on the train.
Too many cars going too fast or
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too slow irritation, hurry up,
hurry up, people.
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I've got places to be right
there.
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Boom.
Every state of irritation
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anxiety, upset, frustration.
Dissatisfaction becomes an
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opportunity to bring your mind
back to the meditation.
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That meditation was the
intention you set.
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As soon as you woke up, I want
to be a cause of happiness for
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all those around me today. now,
certainly many people have lives
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that are filled with
difficulties and hardships.
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Possibly abuse deprivation.
And that makes it hard.
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To imagine that you could be a
cause of happiness for others.
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When you can't even imagine
happiness for yourself.
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Depression.
Is something that brings people
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down so low that it the
depression and the chemical
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hormonal balance in the brain
and the nervous system all
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combined to create a situation
that is hard to get out of the
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black hole of depression.
How hard to see the light?
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These pose particular challenges
for people to set their
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intention to be a cause of
happiness for others.
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So this is the beauty of what I
call mind hacks is that you
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don't have to believe it, you
don't have to feel it in your
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gut.
If you just go through the
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motion, I will be a cause of
happiness, for others, with all
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of my actions of body speech and
mind today.
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Just saying the words.
And trying to make an effort.
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This re paves the brain re paves
the neural Pathways this if you
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can keep it up over time.
Over and over and over, even if
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you don't mean it, even if you
don't feel it, you will
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eventually start to feel it.
You will eventually start to
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mean it.
And you will actually become not
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only a cause of happiness for
others, but you'll see a little
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bit of light, a little bit of
happiness in your own life.
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The enemy of happiness.
The enemy of peace.
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Is doing nothing is stasis.
Is being overwhelmed Frozen,
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unable to act.
That's why I keep emphasizing
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that we have to take action even
if we're Faking It.
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Even if we're just mouthing, the
words or mindlessly.
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Reciting a litany in our brains,
and our minds, Without taking
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the action, nothing happens.
Nothing changes.
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And so if you set your mind to
meditation to becoming a
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meditator to meditating as a
routine and a daily practice,
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that's an action, that's a first
step setting, your intention for
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that.
That's the first step.
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The next step is to act on that
to do it to do something.
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So that step can be waking up in
the morning and saying today.
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Today I am going to be the cause
of happiness for all those
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around me.
That's the next step.
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If you just get that done once
twice, maybe for a week, things
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are going to start to unravel
loosen up and you're going to
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start to feel it and you'll be
able to take the next step.
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And that next step is finding
yourself in a state and
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emotional state where you're not
the boss and saying, whoa, wait
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a minute, I am the boss stepping
back, becoming the angel on your
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shoulder and saying, okay, now I
get to reorient myself to my
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intention, that I will be a
cause of happiness.
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And the day goes on and you get
caught up lost in the sea of
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things going on.
But every time you can stop step
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back, take a breath and say,
ahh.
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I'm going to be a cause of
Happiness.
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You've changed the future.
You've changed the future
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because you're no longer a
participant or a passenger a
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victim being pulled along,
you've suddenly taken charge and
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you can set a new Direction in
that environment.
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Acting taking charge of yourself
of your mind of your heart of
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your intention.
Controls your reality.
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And by taking control of your
emotional spiritual reality, you
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change the present for the
positive, and you change the
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future for the positive.
And as you get better at this,
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not only do you find that your
emotions are more stable.
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Your day is more full of light
than Darkness.
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Not only do you find these
things.
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But you'll find that the people
around you.
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Are also experiencing more
happiness that their their
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column or they're more friendly.
They're more open than more
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welcoming.
Because your state of Happiness
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translates into kind actions,
kindness you become a source of
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kindness.
Because you're happy.
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Happy people are kind people.
Happy people do kind things.
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The Dominoes start to fall as we
override our - mind and our
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animalistic ego, The Dominoes
start to fall and we become, as
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I've said, this bright light
that attracts others to us and
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that brings them happiness.
And their happiness.
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Becomes our happiness becomes a
house of mirrors reflecting
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happiness.
Infinitely And as you experience
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that through this, very simple
basic practice of meditation in
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action.
A sense of Joy will well up in
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your heart and this Joy is like
nothing you will have ever
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experienced before because it is
a sustained feeling sense of a
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of abiding of joy of
satisfaction. and while it might
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not last, the moments that we
experience it, Help us to work
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harder.
To set Our intention more
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frequently, more strongly so
that we can build more sustained
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moments of joy.
So meditation a different way of
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looking at meditation.
Setting your intention in the
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morning.
There are many ways many
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intentions to set in the
morning, but the one I've laid
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out here is being a cause of
happiness, for others, and all
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of your actions, and thoughts
and words.
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And then catching yourself using
the moments of irritation,
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anxiety, and upset to, to, to
reset that intention to take
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that step back.
I guarantee. that if you do
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this, For any period of time.
Your life will change for the
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better.
The lives of those around.
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You will also change.
So, thank you for listening
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today.
It's been great talking and I
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look forward to the next episode
where we can talk more, please
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send an e-mail Mike at resonant.
Social, share this with your
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friends and let's continue to
work together to create a
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resonant life uncovering, our
own and others, authentic
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selves, creating a world of
peace and happiness, that will
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defy expectation.